What does a person do when life kicks you to the ground and starts to test you with a series of taunts? Say you've got to cross an unfamiliar road where everything was wrong, potholes, unbearable heat and when you get to the other side... it's a whole different kind of bad. Embarking for your return, things have died down, the potholes have sorta been covered, but not that well... the dents are obviously still there, the heat is bearable now but you wish it was gone for good. What would you say to a scenario where that happened but it's come back right at you? Having to possibly cross that road again?
For those that don't get it, my grandfather (RIP) passed away a few months ago, figure the rest out yourself.
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=sigh= crossing that road the second time would not make it any easier than crossing it the first time. The scar is there, never fully healed and threaten to open up any time. And even those old wound does heal, new one would form.
Life is painful, the one being left behind are in more pain than the one who left. isn't there a saying that say something along the line of It take more courage to continue living than to die? Humm.. not quite sure if that apply to this situation. But thats what i always tell myself when i cry calling out to my grandmother (RIP) to let me be with her...
Sometimes...without realizing it.. you would find yourself crying... sometimes you don't know what had caused it.. and when you figure out what cause you to cry, you'll cry even more...
mmm... i guess these pain is a sign that you truly love/loved that person and need to remember that they are still alive inside you and that the best way to show your love is to keep their memory with you alive inside your heart...
wow... do i even make sense? i blabbed so much...
sorry to hear champ
hey its bad to hear that ur going through this. but i guess after reading that blog, the first thing that came to mind is that "every cloud has a silver lining"
and i guess ur grandfather would be happy and sad. he i believe would be "happy" cos he has a grandson who cares so much for him, that his passing would have such an impact on him...mayb this is an indication of the level of closeness of ur relationship. he is surely happy that you will keep him inside your heart. i guess u being sad is right, but he would be "sad" if it was to affect u to the pt where it would negatively impact your life. i think he would want you to live strong despite losing someone u love.
i dunno what happened exactly, but from what i read of the blog, it seems u have to deal with it again?
i guess i would tell u to live every moment u can? i guess i dont have much right to say much cos ive never experienced this stuff...but i do hope u will feel better soon
stay strong willo, your friends are always here for you.
just do what you gotta do to survive the storm :)
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